With nuance and herbalism pleasures, Quai teaches sensitive souls how to create Personal Care Blueprints that stick and sustain.
My name is Quai, and it’s pronounced by rhyming it with sky. I’m a clinical herbalist and psychotherapist who loves the deliciousness of deep sleep.
My offerings are for curious, sensitive, caring people who are looking to improve their self-care.
Rather than quick fixes, my work centers on process and depth.
The ways our body-minds are complex and differ from one another is fascinating to me. I combine my work in herbalism with my training as psychotherapist to help people build Personal Care Blueprints. This assists people to avoid notions of self-care that won’t work for them. My mentorship and teaching isn’t about a model being imposed on you; I provide a framework where the gems you may learn from different wellness-related sources can take hold and you re-shape what doesn’t fit for you.
I appreciate what really good sleep and well-crafted herbalism protocols can do for us humans. My ideal work results in someone dropping their shoulders, tasting a remedy that is yummy and feeling the pleasure plants can offer.

A Story that Brought Me Here
[work in progress]

Why I offer sleep-related work
Some of the most salient experiences in my life have either been stymied or flourished based on the quality of my rest. And I learned through my herbalism practice that improving sleep is foundational to so many other facets of wellness. With most people, it’s truly the best place to start.
Supporting people’s sleep, for me, is about the contagiousness of feeling good. It just really feels good to be well rested!
Doing this sleep support work grew from my own personal, deep needs. I love cooking dinners for people in my life at my home. If we linger and chat into the evening, I can’t help but offer tea to digest our meal together and some herbal goody that sets the tone for relaxation. One of my favorite things to do is browse consignment and used stores for funky, comforting mugs, and trays to serve up these spicy or floral, herbal mixes. Good sleep and getting to it with delight never gets old.
My values
I believe the most peaceful and fulfilling life comes from learning from our lived experiences and being mindful of the lived experiences that are different from ours. I value joy, laughter, pleasure, honesty, and humbleness. Doing as little harm as possible and finding gentleness to address my missteps is something I try to share with others when I hold space for them.
Since I work with herbalism, I am mindful of how I source herbs, essential oils, and herbal remedies. Not only do I want good quality, but I also want to be responsible by working with ethically harvested plants. This entails both the human labor involved as well as the sustainability of the plants. As much as possible, I want to support small businesses, herbalists of color, queer herbal remedy makers, and women driven entities.
My Intentions Are
- To provide information, education, and support as a guide and mentor on ways of getting the best possible restoration, while also learning with my participants along the way. To be on a journey together.
- To approach this work with an intersectional awareness. This means that although I am producing content for specific people, who tend to be curious and sensitive souls, I am also developing content that aims to not alienate based on identity and experience such as gender, culture, ability, body differences, and spirituality. And where it’s possible, I’ll try to name ways of making resources as affordable as possible. That last one is tricky in terms of honoring the labor behind herbal items and ensuring folks who are producing content are compensated for their work. Much of that work is more involved than is often understood.
- To grow this business into something that can support other small businesses, as well as herbalists of color, queer herbal remedy makers, and women driven entities.
My sources of learning
Since I believe someone’s training isn’t the entirety of what influences their work, I wanted my bio section to help people know where I’m coming from to hopefully give a better sense of what it might be like to work with me.
Before my formal, school, and program based education, I was a student of observation. My learning goes back to when I was a wee one. I was the kid who quietly watched what happened around me and somehow I learned that when people slow down, like waaay s l o w d o w n things always get clearer. I learned that clarity, as opposed to confusion and stress meant better sleep.
– It was that influence that drives me to address emotional well-being with physical comfort. They go hand in hand. –
I have gravitated toward experiential learning, self study, peer support and receiving mentorship. Formal and more structured programs enhance my ongoing learning, but my most profound learning has come from relationships with peers, mentors, and those for whom I hold space. They all teach me. I received my master’s degree in social work from Hunter College, and have completed post-graduate training in working with the body and nervous system for emotional difficulties like anxiety, stress, and trauma. Some of that training has been in Internal Family Systems (IFS), Sensorimotor training, and psychedelic assisted psychotherapy. These are experiential trainings that taught me that staying in a moment to moment basis offers the deepest healing. I have over 600 hours of herbalism and aromatherapy training. I completed a year at ArborVitae School of Traditional Herbalism, which provided valuable knowledge for me to learn how to learn about working with herbs. Prior to that, I did a nine month course called Interprofessional Program in Integrative Healthcare through Mount Sinai. This helped me understand how health care providers see modalities, such as herbalism and to discover where a gap is between home, self care and medical services. I also trained in the NADA protocol. The NADA protocol is a non-verbal adjunctive therapy for emotional trauma, mental health, and addiction that calms the nervous system. That protocol uses the placement of acupuncture needles (or ear seeds that are held with adhesive to points) on the ears. Working with NADA, herbs, somatics and aromatherapy has taught me about how healing happens beyond narratives.
Additionally, I regularly attend herbalism workshops and participate in herbal mentorship.